In a speech this week at a Las Vegas casino bearing his name, Donald Trump used a slew of profanities (f-bombs included) to illustrate how his leadership style would differ from that of President Obama, were he elected president.
While I have no (repeat, zero) interest in the politics of the matter, it serves as a wonderful teaching moment for both incumbent and would-be leaders of any ilk. Before proceeding, in the interest of full disclosure, my wife, business partner, and a few close friends will vouch for the fact that my lips aren’t exactly pure, either.
That said, I learned long ago that crude and vulgar remarks used by a leader in the company of those who would follow them are virtually guaranteed to offend people and cause them to lose respect for the leader. They probably won’t say anything to you about it (they will likely even laugh at your crude joke or applaud your vulgarity, as Trumps’ audience did), but you will be diminished in their eyes for having done it. Moreover, like toothpaste, once it’s out, it’s out, and no, it doesn’t “stay in Vegas.”
Be smart – don’t let gratuitous remarks earn you the disrespect of followers.
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In a well-written piece by Adam Bryant in today’s NY Times (
Last evening, President Obama made a highly publicized appearance on The Tonight Show with Jay Leno. Ostensibly, the purpose of his appearance on the show, the first ever for a sitting U.S. President, was to communicate with the American people, indeed the world, about our current financial crisis.
As a result of having an 85 year old father who has been hospitalized almost continuously since November, I’ve been dealing with the health care system a lot lately. In so doing, I’m reminded of two things:



